我眼中的自己

THE TRUE NATURE OF A MANS CHARACTER IS WHAT THAT MAN WOULD DO IF HE KNEW HE’D NEVER BE FOUND OUT…
I was married 16 years, divorced her due to adultery. I have two children whom are grown young adults. I have been single and have not dated in over 4 years. I have been clean and sober for over 20 years. I live a simple life living and working between Chicagoland and winters in Miami. I practice rigorous honesty in all aspects of my life. My character has been shaped over the years by such principles as honesty, accountability, responsibility, vulnerability, transparency, open mindedness, unconditional love, compassion and forgiveness. I’ve spent decades doing work on myself around recovery from drugs / alcohol, family of origin, family dynamics and family dysfunction. The end result. Alignment of mind, body, spirit, in harmony as one. . Emotional intelligence, a CLEAR perspective of reality. Enlightenment if you will. I’m witty, loyal, humble, disciplined, and honest to a fault. I understand active listening and being sensitive to each others sensitivities. My integrity isn’t negotiable nor for sale

我理想的对象

Looking for a Honest, trustworthy, transparent, kind, compassionate, witty, and active partner. One who is emotionally intelligent and mature. One who has self confidence and has self acceptance.

I am looking for a partner, that soul mate if you will. One who has complete self acceptance of herself. One who stands in her own truth and is secure, confident and has self worth. Not engaged in approval seeking behavior, needs constant validation from the outside. One who understands happiness, joy and peace come from within. A certainly not one who uses her body as a weapon.