Lala
From Bandung, Indonesia
37 y.o. woman seeking man 35-45
- Height: 5'3" / 159 cm
- Weight: 104 lbs / 47 kg
- Body type: About average
- Hair: Black, Medium length
- Eyes: Black
- Ethnicity: Asian
- Zodiac sign: Virgo
Active within 6 days
Last update: January 11, 2026
Member since: November 18, 2020
Username: Lala117
Member ID: 1007629
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Active within 6 days
Last update: January 11, 2026
Member since: November 18, 2020
Username: Lala117
Member ID: 1007629
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About Me
I value depth over comfort. How someone thinks, takes responsibility, and stands by their words matters more to me than appearances or promises.
I’m not looking for a savior, and I don’t live in illusions. I’m looking for a partner, not a compromise with myself.
I’m comfortable being on my own, but I choose conscious closeness: growth, clarity, and real dialogue from light conversations to difficult ones.
If you can enjoy dry humor or a bit of dark humor, that’s a welcome bonus.
Superficiality and pretense aren’t my path.
About My Match
You are emotionally grounded and able to hold real conversations, not just pleasant ones.
You speak honestly, listen without deflecting, and take responsibility for your choices.
You don’t rush intimacy, but you don’t avoid depth either. You value growth, clarity, and mutual respect over drama or control.
You’re comfortable with yourself, have a sense of humor (even the dry or dark kind), and believe partnership is about presence, not possession.
About Myself
- English (fluent)
- Bachelor's Degree
- Education/Teaching/Child Care
- Muslim
- Single
- I have no kids
- Yes
- Trying to quit
- Never
Personality and Interests
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Adventurous/Wild/Spontaneous, Argumentative, Communicative, Easygoing/Flexible/Open-Minded, Friendly/Kind, Humorous/Witty, Intellectual/Smart, Serious/Responsible, Sociable
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Yoga/Meditation
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Coffee and conversation, Gardening/Landscaping, Meetings/Friends, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Political interests, Volunteering
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No Preference
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Acoustic, Blues, Classical, Country, Instrumental, Jazz, Oldies, Soul/R&B, World Music/Ethnic
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Non-Fiction, Novels, Poetry
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