Abdy

About Me

I believe you truly get to know someone over time, but here’s a glimpse: I’m a blend of contrasts—progressive yet grounded in timeless values like kindness, hard work, integrity and commitment. I strive to grow every day, embracing change while holding onto the things that truly matter. Playful yet serious, structured yet creative, I'm constantly working to expand my physical, mental, and spiritual flexibility.

I try my best to be empathetic, truthful, and trustworthy (romantic? I'm working on it!). Life has taught me patience, and I've learned to let go of regrets while carrying forward the lessons. I practice the Buddhist “No Mind” approach—surrendering to outcomes but always giving my best effort.

F. Scott Fitzgerald wrote, “The test of a first-rate intelligence is the ability to hold two opposing ideas in mind at the same time and still retain the ability to function.” That resonates with me, as I'm always seeking balance between new perspectives and enduring values.

Ask not who I am or if I am loyal but ask what I'm willing to sacrifice for the people I love or the things I believe in. The answer to that reveals the heart of me.

❓🤔🤛😁💭 You can ask us (the voices in his head) and we'll tell that he is old, very old but young at heart and mind
🚫🧠🤔🤛😂💭 Actually his heart is old and runs like a 1960 Chevy and his brain?....unlike the newer cars the 1960 Chevy did not have a brain...
😁💭...We (the voices in his head) live in the empty space of his head, rent-free!
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(P.S. My inner voices keep life playful and fun. Old soul, young heart, and yes—I do have a brain, despite their jokes!)
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My Interests:
I find joy in a wide range of activities that nurture both body and soul. You might find me meditating, practicing yoga, or dancing like nobody’s watching. I love the discipline and flow of martial arts, the freedom of biking, and the serenity of hiking in nature. When I’m not out exploring, I’m probably in the kitchen, whipping up vegetarian dishes (yes, I occasionally dabble in eggs and cheese!) or getting creative with writing, poetry, drawing, drumming, or crafting. Home is my playground too—I’m a DIY enthusiast who loves fixing and upgrading things around the house. Once upon a time, I was an avid technical climber, mountain biker, skier, snowboarder, and even a parachutist. These days, I focus on balancing all the things I love, but I’ve learned that while you can do anything in life, you can’t do everything. Maybe we can inspire each other to revisit old passions—or discover new ones together!
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About My Match

Seeking a Partner to Explore the Universe Within

I'm on a journey to be the best version of myself and hope to find a partner who inspires and uplifts me—as I’ll do the same for you.

Knowing me, is the prerequisite for telling you truthfully about me & trying to match what I want, like or desire to the perception I have about you; your likes, dislikes, desires, etc. I am looking for a life-partner, my best friend ("A good friend knows all your stories but, a best friend helped you create them") & a playful playmate who wants to PLAY, all rolled into one. That's not too much to ask, is it?
❓🤔🤛😂💭Why don't you just ask fore the goose that lays golden eggs
🚫🧠🤔🤛🤣💭Don't mind him, some people have it but he doesn't, brain that is.

Together, we can create a space where we bring out the best in each other, growing as individuals and as a team. Rumi, the great Persian poet, said it best:
"The universe is not outside of you. Look inside yourself; everything you want, you already are."

Here’s a fun thought: the same elements that make up the stars—carbon, nitrogen, hydrogen, and oxygen—are the building blocks of you. So yes, you truly are the universe, and I’d be honored if you’d become the center of mine.

"I searched for God and found only myself. I searched for myself and found only God."—Rumi

If this resonates with you, let’s talk! I can dive deep into philosophy, swap life stories, or just share a laugh over how often I quote Rumi (the universe forgives me,... I think).

Disclaimer: My inner voice occasionally interrupts with playful commentary to keep me grounded. They suggest I keep this brief… but hey, if you're curious about more, just ask! Let’s connect and create something extraordinary.

I could talk and write a lot more if you would like me to...
❓🤔🤛😁💭 Ladies please! Don't encourage the old fool to say more
🤔🤛😂💭We live with him and hear him all the time
❓🤔🤛🤣💭...and we'd prefer that he 👉🤐

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