Charles

About Me

We can talk here first. I keep my whatsapp for people i know i want to talk to daily.

Im looking for the woman who is ready for a committed relationship. Not one waiting for tv magic. No shy business. I will keep talking to women until one is ready to give in and sign the papers. I get toyed with alot because I'm extra nice and the love I learned to have is the type love christ had. My grandfather was a preacher, my father an abusive biker, and I was a soldier of the USA.

I don't like violence, no hitting or yelling at each other. Only calm understanding and conversational dialogue. I like a peaceful life. I want a woman who will be with me day in amd day out. Sharing the day and there for the morning and night. Someone who partners up 100%. The first person you want to speak to, the last before falling asleep.

I want children, so a woman who is ready to produce offspring for me and be a mother, a wife.

I live a hard life to end up with settled finances. So i need a woman who will respect my income. If She complain about money I will point to the pile and give various options on how to obtain it or find other sources of income.

I don't want a woman who will work as a prostitute. I don't want that on her body or mine.

I don't give girlfriends money anymore. Been abused too much over the years. Especially from the ASEAN women. Im honest, they all know I am moderately wealthy. If she wants money she has to work for it. Legitimate jobs, not naked jobs. I take my money seriously. I suffered greatly for 20 years to have it, and i will suffer the scars for the rest of life. I am fine being the bread winner. She doesn't have to work once shes married. But hobbies or working with me is encouraged for mental and physical health. Being a wife is alot of work in itself.

Thats a bit about me, and certainly describes my emotions at this exact moment. As i stated, i am an honest person.

I am going to put this in the profile just so I don't need to repeat it again. I bore quickly with shy koi dating games. If you want a dating fun im into, try baby names favorite colors and music. At my age you've been through the dating field so many times you realize the dating strategies for teenagers are just games to distract and delay kids being serious about hooking up for long term partnership.


Honorable Army Veteran. Fatherly type. Dad Bod. Happy and calm personality. Animal Lover. I rescue wild cats, and have farm animals. I love rural life and don't care for the city. I want marriage and children. I have already accomplished all the youth American goals, I have a house, I have stable and permanent income, I have hobbies and work I like, I have acquired land and have settled for retirement work. Future school would be purley for pleasure and acquiring fancy degrees I have no intention on using more than as picture on the wall as a status symbol. I have no more missions or goals beyond having a wife and kids, providing and protecting and working for. I had children, I was not married, she did not care for them at her home. My son passed away and the step son was taken by the state due to how they found the children while in her care. Yes, it was traumatic, no such a scar does not ever truly go away. I want a partner who would not place themselves before children and commitment to our family. I want to be married inorder to have legal rights to the children in the event of separation. I am well off, but the law is the law. I bought my son a house before he was born, he was not allowed to know it due to greed and the unfortunate choices by his mother. No, I don't think all women would do this, I have a mother and she didn't do such, obviously as I am alive. I was raised in a home with a bad step father, we are glad he is gone from us and as a child I was raised to be a caretaker , a servant. I was also raised Christian, my grandfather is a preacher. The love of Christ is the type of Love I learned to have. I do not hit, I know many families whos children became well off and well adjusted adults with parents who did not beat them. I do not believe in beating the children to explain concepts. I consider that abusive. I do not like violence, contrary to the common view of Soldier types. We are actually trained to understand the difference between defense and unethical behaviors. As I said I was Honorable during my time in service. I worked as a Med Lab Tech. My job was to save lives, for any patient I provided medical services for. I don't like yelling, see the part about childhood. It is unnecessary and counter productive. A partnership between two adults, when successful, is one in which they support one another in dreams and passion, accept each other and help each other be the best in life they can be. Help one another achieve goals, amd be the best of friends regardless of differences. No two people are the same. Men and women have specific differences, all successful long lasting couples accept this differences and work together. My favorite shows / movies are Sci-fi and Comedy. I like to kisten to sci-fi books while I drive, classics fiction and space operas, and the occasional learning books. I like music. My favorite would be hip-hop with deep bass, but in general I love music all different types. I like to dance and be silly, I enjoy EDM music for the beats and groove. I don't drink often at all, and I don't want to even be around drugs. I like to play video games, and I don't sit still unless I am truly enthralled by said previous entertainments. I love good conversations and time outdoors. I like to garden. I am a peaceful type with a chatty nature that makes me seem a lot moore hyper than I truly am. I type very fast. In primary school I was in special classes for genius children, AIG. That was a very long time ago. I spent a large part of my life in poverty and came from poverty. I want a woman who will respect my earnings and providing. Not a passing respect, a committed respect to be thankful, a woman who will count the blessings with me. If she came from a well off family and never knew what it was to be from rural poverty, then it is unlikely we would get along when it comes to counting blessings and being thankful for small thins like having our own hone with running water and a/c. The ability to grow organic food is a blessing.

Each day is a new day and I hope your os blessed, filled with love and joy, and successful journeys.

About My Match

A younger woman who chooses to be a wife and mother as her main life goal. Someone who will be well behaved and can accept the responsibility of American Freedoms. Some one who isn't intent on partying and having fun as being the purpose in life. A christian/catholic born woman. A woman who will be committed to her husband and trusting of my experience as an older person. If I say something is important believe it and ask questions to find out what you don't understand from my perspective. When i ask your opinion or desire, state it without self judgment or reservation. It is only when stated that we can work on the second part of the act, which is the unit decision as a married couple. A woman who will not hold back our daughters or sons due to the world's way previous, but foster their growth encouraging them to be their best selves and reach for the stars for them selves. A woman who will admit her strengths and weaknesses, and work on strengthening herself leaning on her husband for help. A caring and nurturing woman who would do the same for her husband. Women have certain strengths and men have certain strengths, biologically. A woman is the mother and a man is the father. This is the world we were born to, we will accept it, work together, build upon our selves, and give our children more opportunity, freedom, and growth then we could have ever imagined for our selves. The children already have inheritance, and we will continue to build that further, placing them before our selves. They will go to school or learn a trade, they will not be spoiled rich kids, they will understand the value of work and being productive for society as a whole. They will be kind, loving, and thoughtful people; the wife and I will instill and provide example of these behaviors for them to follow. I want to meet the woman fitting for my plan, the woman willing to commit, with loyalty and honesty, without ideations of dating games, tests, or other sly or misleading behavior types. A woman who is already ready to be a wife. Not a girlfriend. A wife. Committed life partnership.

❤️ I am glad to meet you. Thank you for being here. ❤️

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