Paul
From Oceanside, California, United States
62 y.o. man seeking woman 32-46
- Height: 6'3" / 190 cm
- Weight: 209 lbs / 95 kg
- Body type: Slender
- Hair: Dark brown, Short length
- Eyes: Dark Brown
- Ethnicity: White / Caucasian
- Zodiac sign: Gemini
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Last update: August 20, 2025
Member since: November 15, 2024
Username: pauljamesd
Member ID: 1323732
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Active within 2 days
Last update: August 20, 2025
Member since: November 15, 2024
Username: pauljamesd
Member ID: 1323732
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About Me
Allow me to introduce myself. I am an Emotionally mature, kind, sensitive individual. I prefer small circles of friends and quiet rooms to loud crowded spaces. Given the choice between doing what I love and being with whom I love, I prefer the latter.
I believe in my heart that it really is the journey that matters, and not the destination. I love dogs and animals, probably more then most people. I go out of my way to help and protect the people I love. I love new food and new places. I am more comfortable giving then receiving, but I am working on that. For the most part, I am more of a "doer" then a "talker" type.
I would say my primary love languages are "physical touch" and "quality time". I am a very deep thinker and like to discuss the world and what is going on in it. I am open minded and love to have a good discussion. I am quick to admit when I am wrong. I go to church several times per week and start by giving thanks for the amazing life I have. I work out at the gym five days a week to stay toned and trim.
*** SCAMMER Warning: If you are a scammer OR are just looking for financial assistance, I do not send any money ever. Many people have real needs, I totally understand that. However, SCAMMERS have ruined it for everyone. Sorry!
If your do not have the ability to do frequent, Short VIDEO calls, I am not the man for you.
I want someone who can send video clips of their day and life (as I am willing to do) . If you are not able to afford to do these things, or YOUR PHONE IS BROKEN, I am not the right person for you.
Also, there seems to be a scam trying to get people to use paid translation services that charge by the word. I am only willing to use regular translation software, like Google or DeepL. ***
******** I REPORT ALL SCAMMERS *********
About My Match
A kind soul. Someone who wants to build a life and knows what it is to work at anything that is important. I want someone who sees the joy and beauty in life, even on the bad days.
I want someone who understands that their partner is the second most important person in their life and values that every day. I want someone who knows what it is to be part of a team and who says "yes" more then "no". The perfect partner uses phrase like "What can I do" or "How can I help" commonly.
I would trade smart and funny for kind, caring and considerate every day, but someone who has all these traits would be perfect.
It is key, that my partner is very aware that while they may be beautiful on the outside, and that is a blessing, time will mature that beauty. They must have deep inner beauty and bring a constant appreciation of the partner they pick. I promise to do the same!
About Myself
- English (native), Chinese (basic), German (basic)
- Bachelor's Degree
- Internet/Ecommerce/Technology
- Catholic
- Divorced
- I have no kids
- Not sure
- Non-Smoker
- On occasion
Personality and Interests
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Adventurous/Wild/Spontaneous, Calm, Communicative, Conservative/Clean Cut, Easygoing/Flexible/Open-Minded, Flirtatious/Playful, Friendly/Kind, Gentle, Intellectual/Smart, Low Maintenance, Optimistic, Outgoing, Practical, Romantic, Romantic, Self Confident, Sensitive/Nurturing/Loving, Serious/Responsible, Simple, Sociable, Spiritual, Unconventional/Free-Spirited
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Badminton/Racquet Sports, Biking, Bowling, Golf, Hiking/Walking, Jet/Water Skiing, Snow Skiing, Weightlifting
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Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Hobbies and crafts, Meetings/Friends, Movies/Videos, Music and concerts, Playing cards, Political interests, Theater, Travel/Sightseeing, Watching sports
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American, Barbecue, Caribbean/Cuban, Chinese/Dim Sum, Eastern-European, German, Greek, Indian, Italian, Japanese/Sushi, Mexican, Seafood, Spanish, Thai
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Acoustic, Blues, Classic Rock n' Roll, Classical, Country, Easy Listening, Folk, Instrumental, Jazz, New Age, Oldies, Pop, Reggae, Rock, Showtunes
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Detectives, Fiction, Non-Fiction, Novels