Xander
From Saint Paul, Minnesota, United States
61 y.o. man seeking woman 35-55
- Height: 6'3" / 190 cm
- Weight: 234 lbs / 106 kg
- Body type: A few extra pounds
- Hair: Salt and pepper, Short length
- Eyes: Gray
- Ethnicity: White / Caucasian
- Zodiac sign: Libra
Active within 2 weeks
Last update: January 16, 2026
Member since: June 16, 2025
Username: Xander
Member ID: 1364786
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Active within 2 weeks
Last update: January 16, 2026
Member since: June 16, 2025
Username: Xander
Member ID: 1364786
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About Me
I am a widower seeking a bride.
I am of Scandinavian descent.
I have an adult son on his own. I welcome your adult children or grandchildren.
I do not want to raise young children again.
I hate Donald Trump and everything he stands for.
I am open to relocating to a new country.
I have a good sense of humor and believe in "doing unto others as I want done to me."
I have a very strong sex drive.
About My Match
Good humored. Sexually interested. Easy going.
I appreciate a confident woman who is unafraid to speak her true thoughts and feelings. I am unafraid to listen to her. I am much more afraid of unspoken things allowed to fester.
Honestly, even if a bit shamefully, it helps if you like to do "housewife" things. (Though I obviously cook/clean/laundry etc.) An equitable sharing of the household/yard chores is always best.
You will not need to work outside the home if you don't want to. (and if you like to, you certainly can)
About Myself
- English (native)
- Bachelor's Degree
- Retired
- Christian
- Widowed
- Don't live with me
- No
- Non-Smoker
- Socially
Personality and Interests
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Adventurous/Wild/Spontaneous, Artistic, Calm, Communicative, Easygoing/Flexible/Open-Minded, Eccentric, Friendly/Kind, Gentle, Humorous/Witty, Intellectual/Smart, Low Maintenance, Romantic, Romantic, Self Confident, Spiritual, Unconventional/Free-Spirited
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Hiking/Walking
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Coffee and conversation, Dining out, Meetings/Friends, Movies/Videos, Music and concerts, Political interests, Video games, Watching sports
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No Preference, Barbecue, Chinese/Dim Sum, Indian, Japanese/Sushi, Mexican, Seafood
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Alternative, Big Band/Swing, Classic Rock n' Roll, Dance/Electronica, Folk, Rock, World Music/Ethnic
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Fiction, Newspapers, Non-Fiction